Not to kill the vibe or anything but put your hand up if:
PS: I mean mental raising your hands because it would be just weird if you randomly did that in public. I mean imagine the stares and I don’t to carry the guilt of doing that to you. Okay, I may have gotten carried away for a second; but to the issue at hand.
At one point or another in your life, what everyone accepted “in thing” just didn’t make sense to you.
Yeah don’t run away from your rebellious streak even if it was something as petty as arguing out which part of the pizza was the best.
How about putting up your hand if you didn’t want to be the ‘anti’ one and therefore went with the flow. Come on don’t be embarrassed…we can’t all be carrying placards screaming our justice for our thoughts.
Point is, if you participated in the little exercise above you may or may not have giggled at how silly you were trying to fit in with the in crowd.
Or how ridiculous you had to behave to get that crush notice you.
Probably not all these situations ended up in laughter but some actually ended in real tears. Whether it is because you got up and realized you deserved better or your best was totally ignored by someone who you saw as irreplaceable, you moved on from that situation.
Cheers to you!
Because hey…what’s a love that doesn’t keep you up all night and all day right?
No matter what road you took to get to the self-empowered or strong person you are today, something had to die.
It could have been an illusion, a perception, a feeling or a fantasy. But only when did that thing die did you feel alive.
Sometimes when we lose some things we are inconsolable at that moment. We try to retrace our steps to figure out where we went wrong.
But honey…it isn’t always your fault. Something had to be crushed to make space for something better.
So anytime something dies, cry it out, sip some tea and pull yourself together because what’s coming right after is going blow your mind, in a good way.
Till we overcome that next death….bye darlings.