It does not really matter how you look at it but whatever you are complaining about now did not show up out of the blue.
You started it yourself years ago.
Am I being too blunt or am I telling the truth?
That animal that makes you run away like a little girl?
That style you hate seeing on guys?
That avocado dish you cannot stand?
They all have a link to things you did in the past. Can you see the pattern I am drawing?
Cory looked around nervously as the little kids jumped around happily at her niece’s birthday party. She wished she had stayed inside and continued decorating the birthday cake. But it was too late now and she had to keep herself composed so that she doesn’t raise any curious eyebrows.
She tapped away on her phone as the kids screamed at the cool tricks the clown made with the balloon. ‘Well that was easy. As long I stay on this side of the lawn, I will be just fine.’ thought Cory.
Then she felt the place go quiet quickly. She glanced up only to be met by a pink balloon shaped like a pig. What happened after that scene made the kids a bit confused.
Everyone watched as Cory jumped around as though her clothes were on fire and hid behind the nearest tree.
Flashback to 15 years ago Cory pranced around happily with her balloon as she moved towards Pete. She thought he was cute because he really colored pretty things for the girls in kindergarten. Immediately she gave the balloon to Pete, he burst it and run off giggling. Poor Cory stood behind the tree and cried.
My point is, you may not always the solution to your problems now in the present. Sometimes you have to dig a little deeper and get your hands dirty.
Because whatever happening today started long ago .Fashion, music, the current social trends….they all are linked to the past.
Think about this. Pink was once a masculine color and blue for ladies. This changed on when Hitler pinned pink strips on people he thought were gay to identify them easily. Suddenly pink was a feminine color. This is where the dispute on what colors actually suites every gender started from.
Just think deeply. Is there anything you are facing now that has a root in the past?
Maybe what you are battling now may have started since you were 15.